Love and Life, part of a letter: from my foreign friend

Catter 发表于 2006-02-09 15:32:19

Received an E-MAIL from my french friend, Pablo, and again, generated a deep thought from within.  I was triggered with a feeling of happiness with my current status, as an independent lively girl, stepping into my fresh new career life, and walking on my own way. 

I paste these words below, and hope to share with you all.

Yeah, there is work, there is life, there maybe love, there maybe pain.  That's all what I want from life.

So let me tell you, there is no right way. There is your way. And as long as you are yourself and feel good that way, people will see you for who you are, and even a young Chinese movie star would not compete with you .

What I mean by quoting French example is that more and more people do not give time for themselves, and are more and more distant from other people, and spend more and more time at work, and are surprised they are alone. A good job is a good thing. But it has to allow you some time so you can fulfil yourself in some other ways beside work. Otherwise what is  the point of having a good job and a good salary? You must have time to enjoy it, and someone to enjoy it with.

So don't
forget to give yourself time to enjoy life. Because in the end it is the only thing that matters. Some great men have acknowledged that, like JM Keynes (the economist) who, when in his deathbed, just before dying, when asked, looking back, what would he have done differently, he said he
would have drunk more Champaign.

Thank you my friend!

Suddenly, Catter remembered those famous actor's lines from Trainspotting: 

Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. … Choose your future. Choose life. But why would I want to do a thing like that?

关键词(Tag): life work trainspotting


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最新评论


  • 琳琳
    2006-02-10 00:40:30

    生命对于每个人只有一次,总之别亏待了自己。


  • 玉洁
    2006-02-17 13:24:12

    Lots of things need to be settled. Yet can't see why take these trouble. At the age 26, I found myself an alien from some other planet. Just paying for my past careless, childish days.


  • catter
    2006-02-17 16:03:57

    你哪里有26……

    原来总觉得自己还不是承担责任的年龄,周围的人,瞧不顺眼的根本就不管,只顾自己任性。忽然有天发现已经不能够再那样了。忽然有天烦恼起来。忽然有天考虑自己该怎么打点周围这一切。

    忽然我们就都这样了。

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